“Should I continue writing?”

A week ago, I read an entry on a blog about a recently published book. As the author is a friend-of-a-friend, I contacted the author as I wanted to buy a copy of the book. He gladly offered me a copy but wanted something in return; when I asked for details, he said, “I want your honest opinion. I want to know if I should continue to write.” I was amazed that someone, who has had his manuscript accepted for publication by a reputable publisher, would even entertain such thoughts. It got me thinking. Does someone, other than the author himself, have the right to decide whether an author should continue writing or not?

For me, Neil Gaiman answers this question:... Everything is suddenly both obvious and surprising … and it’s magic and wonderful and strange. … Mostly it's a long hard walk. Sometimes it's a trudge through fog and you're scared you've lost your way and can't remember why you set out in the first place.
But sometimes you fly, and that pays for everything. http://journal.neilgaiman.com/2007/10/why-write.html

I’ve had my fair share of comments made about my writing. I’ve accepted the criticisms when they’ve been constructive. When they’ve been destructive, I’ve learned to grit my teeth, say nothing and watch what happens. Most of the time, the people who make these comments end up digging a huge hole, which they eventually fall into, and, thereafter, I need only show them compassion. And, when it’s all over, I’ve gone back to writing for nothing anyone says about me or my work would prevent me from wanting to experience that magic.

So, does someone have the right to tell you not to continue writing?

No way!